Season on Thanksgiving: A warrior's journey of grit, growth and God's grace

For senior defensive end, Nate Criqui, football has never been just a game. It's always been a passion, a lifestyle and an outlet for all of life's challenges.

Growing up without a father was difficult for Nate, and his home life was far from ideal. He often found himself caught in the middle of his parents' arguments, leaving him confused and hurt. When his father left the family, Nate turned to football as a way to cope with the pain and frustration.

"I was really mad at my dad for leaving," Nate said. "But football helped me get out all that anger while also giving me a community of support."

Through the sport, Nate learned valuable lessons about resilience and personal growth. He learned not to be a "baby" and embraced the challenge of becoming the best version of himself.

"I can't be more thankful for those times," Nate said. "I had to deal with an absent father, but it made me into the man I am today."

When Nate first arrived at Sterling College, he had no desire to go to college or continue his education. But God had a different plan for him.

One of Nate's former coaches gave him a harsh but necessary reality check.

The coach told Nate that he'd either end up dead in a few years or go to college and make something of himself. This tough love was exactly what Nate needed to hear.

In early Decemberof his senior year of high school, Nate decided to pursue a college education and football career. He didn't care where he ended up; he just wanted someone to give him a shot.

Sterling College continuously reach out to him, and after visiting the campus, Nate and his mom fell in love with the community's warmth and honesty.

"I've never been more sure of a decision in my entire life," Nate said. "I'm just so thankful for this place because of what they've done for me."

Nate's transition from high school to college wasn't easy. He was a scrawny kid with no clear direction in life. But Sterling provided him with the guidance and support he needed to become the best version of himself.

In addition to his teammates, Nate began building relationships with students from various backgrounds, including theater, volleyball, softball and basketball. He also became more vocal in the student sections at games, making a name for himself on campus.

Nate's journey at Sterling College has been a transformative one. He's learned to never stop pushing forward, even when life gets tough.

"The biggest lesson I've taken so far is to never stop," Nate said. "Just because it's hard doesn't mean you stop. If anything, it means you keep going harder and harder."

As Nate looks beyond his college football career, he has big plans for the future. He aspires to become a police officer in Eudora, Kan., marry his fiancée, Kayla, and start a family.

"That's something I've always wanted in my life," Nate said. "I can't wait to start that chapter."

Despite the challenges he's faced, Nate remains grateful for the lessons he's learned through football and his faith.

"God has used football to humble me," Nate said. "I've learned to rely and trust people. When you lose, it's very easy to point fingers and blame other people. But in reality, I have to do something differently. I can't look at other people to do something if I should be doing that."

Nate's journey is a testament to the power of perseverance and the importance of trusting in God's plan.

Through his struggles and triumphs, Nate has become a stronger, more resilient individual, ready to tackle whatever challenges life throws his way.

"I hope someone will hear this and can relate," Nate said. "Just know that you're not alone in anything you're going through. Your problems don't have to be just yours. There are always people out here to help you no matter what."